Posts Tagged ‘loneliness

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Jun
13

6.25.13 … Stephen Fry: WOW, well said … “to be, or not to be” …

loneliness, suicidal ideation, bipolar, To  be or not to be, Stephen Fry: “But I want you to know that you are not alone in your being alone.”  After reading this, I will have a hard time seeing Stephen Fry as funny … 6.24.13 … Hugh Laurie and Stephen Fry: former comedy duo! … 

The episode, plus the relationship I now have with a magnificent psychiatrist, has made my mental health better, I think, than it’s ever been. I used to think it utterly normal that I suffered from “suicidal ideation” on an almost daily basis. In other words, for as long as I can remember, the thought of ending my life came to me frequently and obsessively. But then it’s the thought behind the most famous speech in all history. To be, or not to be.

I don’t write this for sympathy. I don’t write it as part as my on going and undying commitment to the cause of mental health charities like Mind. I don’t quite know why I write it. I think I write it because it fascinates me.

And perhaps I am writing this for any of you out there who are lonely too. There’s not much we can do about it. I am luckier than many of you because I am lonely in a crowd of people who are mostly very nice to me and appear to be pleased to meet me. But I want you to know that you are not alone in your being alone.

Loneliness is not much written about (my spell-check wanted me to say that loveliness is not much written about – how wrong that is) but humankind is a social species and maybe it’s something we should think about more than we do. I cannot think of many plays or documentaries or novels about lonely people. Aah, look at them all, Paul McCartney enjoined us in Eleanor Rigby… where do they all come from?

The strange thing is, if you see me in the street and engage in conversation I will probably freeze into polite fear and smile inanely until I can get away to be on my lonely ownsome.

Make of that what you will.

via Only The Lonely « The New Adventures of Stephen Fry.




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